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  • Kids and their phones and computers

    I feel the need to clarify some of my personal beliefs. Many people assume their children are in danger of unknown subjects lurking on the Internet in an effort to lure their child in to meeting them. It has been my experience, depending on the age of the child, that most kids willingly enter into a relationship or friendship with an unknown Internet “friend” in an effort to fit in or fill some kind of need in their life.

     
    I believe most of the teenage victims are the result of the child putting themselves in a position to become victims. This is not to say I devalue them as victims, but I have noticed a lot of teenage victims were in a chat room or communicating with an unknown subject and over time they become involved with the person emotionally. Sometimes the relationship is very strong as the communication starts out via the Internet, then progressing to the use of cell phones and eventually face to face meeting(s).

     
    Often times by the time the relationship is discovered, the child is in love with the subject and the bond between the two is very difficult to break. Of course all of this depends on many factors including the location of the victim and the suspect. If the suspect is out of state or otherwise geographically out of the area it is easier to control the relationship.

     
    My daughter was resistant to using a RADAR phone, and I soon discovered it was because she was spending many hours on the phone late at night talking with her boyfriend. Something we never suspected. It was not a big deal, however, it was easy to address once we knew about it.

     
    Inv. Jeff Brown

  • Our Kids

    To summarize my last several posts, I would urge any parent that discovers an inappropriate relationship to report it to the agency having jurisdiction. Remember the first and foremost priority for everyone involved is the safety of the child. The second priority is preserving any evidence to assist in the end goal of putting the suspect behind bars where he/she belongs.

     Also keep in mind that the decision you face might need to be made for a child other than your own. Chances are you could discover a friend of your child has become involved in an inappropriate relationship and/or engaging in some type of inappropriate behavior. 

     Monitoring your children is not about spying on them, it is about being a good parent. Being a good parent means knowing where your kids are at all times, knowing who they are with at all times, and knowing what they are doing at all times. All it takes is one bad decision by an otherwise good kid, and any child could become capable of making a serious life-altering choice which could negatively impact their future.

     Remember, even good kids can make bad choices and bad decisions! Peer-pressure can be very hard for some kids to withstand and can influence a good kid to make a bad decision or bad choice in life based on the values and morals of another. As parents, we always need to know what kinds of friends our kids are hanging around with, and what kind of influence these friends have on our kids as they are helping to shape and mold our children into adulthood.

     

    Inv. J. Brown  

  • See How They Chat – Part 2

    James N. Brown, J.D.

    Detective - Retired

     

    In See How They Chat – Part 1, I presented an actual online chat that I had with a potential predator during a training session.  The entire conversation lasted only seven minutes.  In that short time, the predator learned that the “child” did not wear panties and liked to swim naked.  He also knew that the “child’s” mother was at work.  Although I was posing as a child, this was a real conversation with a possible predator, who very quickly learned significant information about the “child.”

     

    In this blog, I will present a similar chat that occurred also during a training session.  This chat is a bit longer, approximately 18 minutes, but it illustrates an additional danger of Internet chatting; lewd pictures being sent to a child.  Once again, I use “Predator” in place of the actual screen name and “Child” in place of my undercover name.  The chat is exactly as it occurred.  I have included the times in order to show how quickly the predator moved the conversation along.  There are a few of my comments in parentheses.

     

    [10:46] Predator: hello

    [10:46] Child: hi

    [10:47] Predator: how are you doing?

    [10:47] Child: fine and u

    [10:48] Predator: doing fine…downloading some pics at the moment (he has already introduced pictures into the conversation)

    [10:49] Child: kewl, u share?????

    [10:49] Predator: sure

    [10:50] Child: kewl

    [10:50] Predator: what you like to see?

    [10:51] Predator: girl/guy-pics? or you like girl-pics too? (he has no problem letting the child know he has all kinds of pictures)

    [10:52] Child: i like it all

    [10:52] Predator: good

    [10:53] Predator: do you have a picture of you? (he already wants to know what the child looks like)

    [10:56] Predator: you like the pics? (he has sent pornography to the child)

    [10:56] Child: kewl pics, was that you? (child is responding to the pornography pictures)

    [10:57] Child: no, no camera (child is responding to the question regarding a picture of her)

    [10:57] Predator: ok (he is responding to the child not having a camera)

    [10:58] Predator: no, I am on different pics (he is responding to the child’s question as to whether he was in the pornographic pictures)

    [10:58] Child: kewl

    [10:59] Predator: do you have some pics for me?

    [10:59] Predator: pics of girls your age?

    [10:59] Child: yes please (a bit of confusion here…it happens in chatting…child is politely responding to what she believes is a request to send her more pictures)

    [10:59] Predator: do you have them for me? (he has straightened out the confusion by again asking the child for pictures of her or girls her age)

    [11:00] Child: no pics

    [11:00] Predator: :(

    [11:00] Child: ddad doesn’t klet me have any

    [11:00] Predator: ok

    [11:01] Predator: this is me with a girl…(the photograph showed oral copulation)

    [11:02] Child: kewl

    [11:03] Predator: have you done this kind of thing?

    [11:04] Child: no

    [11:04] Predator: what is the most exciting thing you have done? (he is trying really hard to engage the child in a conversation about sex acts)

     

    At this point I terminated the conversation by logging off.  During this 18-minute conversation, the “child” was subjected to images of pornography, including one with the predator, and an attempt to engage the “child” in a sexually graphic conversation.  Predators are that aggressive…it can happen that fast.

     

    I hope that this short series See How They Chat has illustrated how aggressive predators can be, and how quickly they are willing to find out information about a child, send pornography, and engage in a sexual conversation.  Although this occurred in a training session, it is the same in actual cases.  And, most importantly, these same predators have now moved to cell phones in search of their victims.

     

    This is why it is imperative that parents understand the potential dangers of children having cell phones.  Armed with this knowledge, parents can take appropriate steps to put safeguards in place…this is what RADAR is all about.

  • See How They Chat – Part 1

    James N. Brown, J.D.

    Detective - Retired

     

    In my next two blogs, I’m going to share with you the nature of a chat between a predator and a potential child victim.  I believe it is important for everyone, but especially parents, to understand how aggressive a predator can be with a child.  Unfortunately, I cannot share a chat from an actual case because the matter may still be in litigation.  I can share chats that have occurred in training secessions.

     

    All officers engaged in proactive Internet investigations should attend extensive training on how to conduct an undercover operation with a predator.  The training will include several hours during which the officer poses as a child and goes into chat rooms where children would be expected to meet and talk.  It is not uncommon for predators to frequent the same chat rooms, where the predator seeks to engage a child in conversation that will lead to a potential meeting.  In an undercover operation, the officer is seeking to engage in conversation with the predator that will lead to his arrest and prosecution.

     

    The following chat occurred during one of my training classes.  I have used “Predator” in place of the actual screen name and “Child” in place of my undercover name.  The chat is exactly as it occurred.  I have included the times in order to show how quickly the predator moved the conversation along.  There are a few of my comments in parentheses.

     

    [10:40] Predator: are you 14f? (he wants to confirm the child’s age and sex from her screen name)

    [10:40] Child: yes

    [10:40] Predator: where is your mom?

    [10:41] Child: at work (he now knows the child is probably alone)

    [10:41] Predator: is it morning there or night?

    [10:42] Child: mid morning

    [10:42] Predator: what are you wearing? (he is moving right to his main interest)

    [10:42] Child: jeans and tshirt

    [10:42] Predator: and under?

    [10:43] Child: skin

    [10:43] Predator: no panty?

    [10:43] Child: no

    [10:43] Predator: do you live next to a lake or woods or river?

    [10:44] Child: ocean

    [10:44] Predator: close to your home?

    [10:44] Child: kinda

    [10:44] Predator: do you go there at night sometimes?

    [10:44] Child: sometimes

    [10:45] Predator: and you swim naked?

    [10:45] Child: somethimes

    [10:45] Predator: your mom know?

    [10:46] Child: no

    [10:46] Predator: at what time of night do you go to swim naked?

    [10:46] Child: evening

    [10:46] Predator: do you go when its dark or no?

    [10:47] Child: at night

    [10:47] Predator: with the moonlight you swim?

     

    At this point I terminated the conversation by logging off.  What is important to notice is that the entire conversation lasted only seven minutes.  In that short time, the predator learned that this “child” does not wear panties and likes to swim naked.  Pretty fast work on his part.  I have no doubt that the predator would have wanted to learn more about what the child looked like and eventually would have tried to see if they could meet.

     

    In my next blog, “See How They Chat – Part 2,” I’ll give a similar example of a predator’s online conduct.  In this second example, the predator is much more aggressive and sends the child a picture.

  • To monitor or not to monitor

    I have given many talks on the benefits of monitoring your children and have discussed, often time at length, the reasons for monitoring your kids. Usually the parent will start out with something along the lines of….well my kids are not like that, or… we have a very open relationship and my child would always come to me with something of that nature.

    I always offer that as a parent you may very well trust your child, and many times you are correct with your assessment of your child not falling prey to an adult. However, many of the cases I have investigated have resulted in a parent that does in fact monitor their child and their child discusses with another child some inappropriate behavior or relationship. The parents of the child that is not being monitored does not have any idea of the relationship.

    So, even as a parent of a child that you trust completely, it is not a bad idea to monitor your child.

    In fact, I have discovered several incidents by monitoring my kids that I have had to report as a mandated reporter. (In California select occupations require you to report suspected child abuse, actually it is a crime if you do not report the acts. Occupations such as doctors, counselors, fireman, and police officers to name a few require you to report suspected child abuse.)

    The incidents were not directly involving my children; rather it was friends they were communicating with. This is important to realize that you might discover something inappropriate while monitoring your kid’s cell phone or computer usage.

  • More Info.

    It has been my experience that a teenager involved in an inappropriate relationship will often only reveal only a small part of the relationship, and again this depends on the extent of the relationship. Sometimes you have a teenage child that has had hundreds of hours of communication with an adult. The child feels that nobody but the suspect really understands them.

    Often times the child will withdraw farther from the family when confronted. This is a very delicate matter and is best handled with professional help.

    I have seen various approaches to, “solve the problem” including constant parental monitoring. This included taking the child to school, meeting them for the lunch break, and then picking them up right after school. Additionally they would always be present if the child used a phone or computer.

    I have seen other cases where the parents sent the child to one of the many out of state “boot camp” facilities.

    So what as parents do we do? I know as a parent of four kids it is not easy. I also know as a police officer that works sex crimes, it probably sucks to be one of my kids. I really try to temper my parenting and pick the non law enforcement answer when confronted with a decision concerning my kids. On the other hand I feel blessed I have such a wide understanding of how some of these crimes are allowed to occur as Ifeel I can better protect my kids and help them make the right decisions.

  • Additional information:

    If the communication between your child and the suspect is strictly via the Internet or through a cell phone then it is easier to control then if the subject is a teacher or otherwise close to the victim on a daily basis. Depending how the relationship was discovered usually will give you an idea of how to control or stop the relationship. Many times an unsuspecting parent stumbles upon sexually graphic writings or photos. In this case it is probably safe to assume you have discovered the relationship rather late, or depending how you look at it, just in time.

    In a case like I just described, I would instruct the parent(s) to install monitoring software on their computers and closely monitor any activity. A problem we encounter in law enforcement is the subject of jurisdiction. Basically, and to be brief, the law enforcement agency having jurisdiction over where the suspect lives usually, depending what occurred, has the responsibility of charging the crime in their area. You can see the complexity of having two subjects communicate over the Internet, engage in illegal, minor verses adult, behavior and then try and sort out who did what and what agency will handle the prosecution.

    Not really a big deal if they live in the same city or county, however, if the behavior crosses across the country it changes the playing field. Again describing the above incident, hypothetically the victim in the case is a teenage girl and the suspect is a forty to fifty year old male. The teen in these cases more often than not will profess their love for the suspect. Many times the teen will lie or go to great lengths to keep the relationship a secret from their parents. This is the hardest type of case to resolve, as you generally have a teenage girl that has spent many hours communicating with the subject and he has totally ingrained himself into her life. She will often times, at the early stages of the investigation, lie or hide the truth.

    And again more to follow!

    Inv. Jeff Brown 

  • A RADAR Christmas Poem to Ponder

    James N. Brown, J.D.
    Detective - Retired

    ‘Twas the morning of Christmas and all through the house,
    Every creature was stirring, including the mouse.

    The stockings were torn from the chimney with abandon,
    The cacophony of noise sounded like a cannon.

    And what through my wandering eyes did I see?
    Cell phones for my children, ages 13 to 3.

    I thought to myself…what a wonderful gift,
    Easy communication with the children, what a heartfelt lift.

    Whatever the problem, including a stranger,
    Be quick on the phone to alert us of danger.

    But lo did I know that a problem lurked near,
    Easy access by others to those I hold dear.

    So off to the Internet I flew in a hurry,
    And went to RADAR’s website to ease my worry.

    www.mymobilewatchdog.com was the answer,
    To protect my children from the predator cancer.

    With a simple few clicks and a phone call or two,
    My children are safer and yours can be too.

    So Merry Christmas to all and to all a good ’08,
    And be sure to install RADAR... please hurry, don’t wait.

  • Did She…Or Didn’t She? – Part II

    James N. Brown, J.D.
    Detective - Retired

    In my last blog I discussed the case of Joelle Ogletree, a Texas high school teacher who was accused by three of her students of having sexual misconduct with them. Ogletree was indicted by a grand jury in 2003. In 2004, after turning down a plea deal, her trial began. Only two of the boys, Matt and Chayce, were to testify against her because the third boy, Sam, admitted he had fabricated his allegations against Ogletree. Matt’s testimony did not go well as details of the alleged conduct were altered, forgotten, or added. The case against Ogletree ended in a mistrial, and all charges against Ogletree were dropped.

    Despite the end of the criminal case in her favor, the Texas Education Agency still tried to revoke Ogletree’s teaching license. A hearing on the matter was held in June 2006, after which the judge ordered Ogletree’s teaching license to be “granted without delay.” After an unsuccessful appeal by the Texas Education Agency, Ogletree was issued a new teaching license in November 2006. She is now suing the school district for wrongful termination.

    A few weeks ago, the case was featured in a two-part Dr. Phil Show. Ogletree appeared in both episodes and adamantly denied any sexual misconduct with any of her students. In the first episode, Dr. Phil interviewed Chayce and his mother by telephone. Chayce stated that he and Ogletree had been involved in sexual misconduct. Dr. Phil offered Chayce a polygraph. Chayce accepted and a nationally respected operator administered the examination. Chayce showed deceptive on all questions related to his allegations against Ogletree.

    In the second episode, Matt appeared on the Dr. Phil show and confronted Ogletree. He was unyielding in his allegations that he and Ogletree had been involved in substantial sexual conduct. However, details of his allegations were challenged by Ogletree, and she pointed out that his statements on the show differed from his earlier statements and his sworn testimony. Matt was offered a polygraph. He accepted. A highly respected polygraph examiner, who was once the head of the Los Angeles Police Department’s polygraph unit, gave the test. Matt showed deceptive on all questions related to his allegations against Ogletree. Even in the face of the polygraph results, Matt continued to allege that he and Ogletree had been involved in sexual misconduct.

    Ogletree appears to have done everything in her power to clear her name and reputation. All criminal allegations against her were dropped. She has won back her teaching license. She is suing for wrongful termination. One of the boys recanted his allegations, and the other two showed deceptive on polygraphs administered by respected and skilled examiners. Despite all these favorable results, when polled by Dr. Phil, a few people in his audience indicated they believed there had been some inappropriate sexual conduct between Ogletree and her students.

    So, did she or didn’t she? What do you think? If you would like to discuss this further, please post your comments or questions in my Ask The Expert forum.

  • Now what!

    How to proceed, as a parent, once the relationship is discovered? It basically depends on the relationship between the child and the suspect. If the child and the suspect have normal daily contact, i.e. the suspect is a teacher or a coach maybe even a close neighbor, then some measures need to be taken to insure the integrity of the criminal case, and again, I have several goals with the first and foremost being the protection of the child, i.e. keep them away from the suspect. Secondarily is the protection of the criminal case.

    Sometimes the “victim” and the “suspect” have developed a very serious and deep relationship and simple parental interjection will cause a quick and often time’s rebellious attitude and/or actions from the “victim.” This reaction varies with the gender and age of the child.

    Generally, I explain to the child that the adult has used their influence as a grown-up to exploit the child. Many times I will discover the child is not the only victim, meaning the suspect has other children he/she is grooming. This fact often helps the victim realize she/he is truly a victim of manipulation. Often times, this strategy will vary depending on the age and relationship between the “suspect” and the “victim” and the relationship between the child and his or her parents.

    Unfortunately, the response of many parents is to immediately remove any and all types of communication devices from the child. Usually they restrict the child, take away their cell phone, and disallow any computer usage. I personally disagree with this strategy, as I have seen too many times the child continues the relationship using other means of communicating.

    Sometimes the parent/guardian will confront or contact the suspect in an effort to keep the person away from the child. I strongly urge any parent to first contact their local law enforcement agency for advice if they discover an inappropriate relationship between their child and an adult. There are many ways to preserve the evidence and protect the child; most of them are not obvious to parents during such a stressful occurrence.


    OK, to summarize so far

    Protect your child

    Notify law enforcement

    Don’t confront the suspect!

    Don’t take away the lines of communication!

    Again more to follow! (Feel free to contact me via the forum should a specific incident arise)


    Inv. Jeff Brown

  • So now what do I do?

    “I believe my underage son/daughter is having an inappropriate relationship and/or is communicating with an adult. Now what do I do?”

    This is to help any parent with the realization their child is now a potential victim. I unfortunately can only speak of California law and the related investigation; however, I can suggest some good common sense approaches to address the issue.

    As a police officer, I have several immediate issues that I have to address upon learning of a possible child exploitation case. First and foremost is my concern for the safety of the child. Is the child in a position to be victimized again? Basically, is the child safe? Is the child protected? Are the parents or caregivers in a position to protect the child or children?

    If there is not some sort of safety for the children, there has to be some sort of intervention in an effort to protect the children. This is a priority for police officers and usually a job for the Social Services Organization.

    Secondarily, we try to protect the evidence of any criminal activity. Again, saving or preserving any communication between the suspect and the child. This is often completed using one of several capturing processes, either via computer or cell phone. This is an extremely important process, as it is often a vital piece of evidence and will help to prove the case.

    Many time sex cases are referred to as a one on one. They are in need of corroboration. This is usually determined with the help of captured communication between the suspect and victim.

    More to follow!

  • Did She…Or Didn’t She? – Part I

    James N. Brown, J.D.
    Detective - Retired

    In my last few blogs, I discussed how a predator needs a target-rich environment. Part of that discussion included the possibility that schools provide such a target-rich environment and that a predator may be employed as a teacher in order to have access to a number of potential victims. The number of cases involving female teachers sexually involved with their students has doubled in the last five years. These types of cases have caught the attention of the media and several stories about female teachers having sexual conduct with their students have been profiled.

    This was the case last week on the Dr. Phil Show. The two-day episode detailed the case of Joelle Ogletree, a high school French teacher in Glen Rose, Texas. Three of her male students, Sam, Matt, and Chayce, accused her of having inappropriate, sexual conduct with them. The boys were 14-15 years old at the time. The conduct allegedly occurred in the classroom, at the Ogletree residence, and in Ogletree’s car.

    Ogletree was placed on leave by the high school and eventually fired from her job. Her Texas teaching license was suspended. In 2003, she was indicted by a grand jury and faced years in prison if convicted. The trial began in August 2004, after she turned down a plea deal. At that time, only two of the boys were going to testify against Ogletree. That was because Sam admitted that he had fabricated his allegations against Ogletree.

    Matt was the first to testify. However, during his testimony, details about the alleged conduct were altered, forgotten, or added. This prompted the prosecutor to request the trial be ended, claiming that Matt’s testimony was being effected by Ogletree’s husband, who had been glaring at Matt during his testimony. The judge agreed and a mistrial was declared. Chayce never testified. Three months later, all criminal charges against Ogletree were dropped.

    Although the criminal case was over, the Texas Education Agency was still trying to revoke Ogletree’s teaching license. A hearing on the matter was held in June 2006. The judge found Chayce and Matt’s allegations “implausible and even impossible.” The judge ordered Ogletree’s teaching license to be “granted without delay.” The Texas Education Agency appealed that ruling but lost. In November 2006, Ogletree was issued a new teaching license.

    Despite these victories, life for Ogletree in Glen Rose, the town she grew up in, did not return to normal. She is not allowed to volunteer at her daughter’s elementary school. She has sued the school district for wrongful termination.

    In my next blog, I will discuss Ogletree’s appearance on the Dr. Phil Show. In addition to her discussing the case over the two-day episode, Dr. Phil interviews Chayce on the phone and Matt comes on the show during the second day. Both boys take polygraphs administered by examiners selected by Dr. Phil. I’ll reveal those results in Did She…Or Didn’t She? – Part II.

  • Driving update

    My daughter has been driving for a few weeks now, and the contract is working perfectly. She calls her mother or I every time she has a new errand to do or if she is ever held up at work or school. Part of why the contract is working so well is she is convinced we have placed a GPS tracking device in her car. We will never tell her differently. I truly believe the feeling we are “watching over” her at all times is a good thing. The thought of our boss (or parent) catching us doing something inappropriate keeps most of us in check on a daily basis.

    My daughter has already had to stand up to peer pressure of a sort regarding her driving contract. She was at her boyfriend’s house last weekend and his dad ran out of sandpaper while working on a home project. Her boyfriend’s dad wanted my daughter to drive the two of them (she and her boyfriend) to Home Depot to pick up more sandpaper for him. In California 16-year-old drivers are first issued a provisional drivers license which has restrictions. One of the restrictions, among others, is they can only drive their siblings for the first year. Apparently, the father told her if they got pulled over to just lie and say her boyfriend was her brother.

    Luckily my daughter did the right thing and told him she is not allowed to do that, so he sent his wife instead. Had my daughter not been bound by our contract, who knows what she would have done?


    Inv. Jeff Brown
  • Target-Rich Environments – Some Final Thoughts

    James N. Brown, J.D.
    Detective - Retired


    A few days ago, Fox News ran a story about teachers and sexual misconduct with their students. In the story, Fox News relied on an investigation conducted by the Associated Press (AP). The AP had competed a five-year survey of state disciplinary actions against teachers. The AP found that 2,570 teachers had been punished for sexual misconduct.

    As I listened to the story, I had two thoughts. First, how unfortunate that such an honorable profession was made to seem so seedy considering the number of teachers disciplined represents only a fraction of the entire profession. Second, the story serves as a reminder that predators need a target-rich environment.

    In earlier blogs, I discussed the different types of predators; abductor, situational, and preferential. I have also explained why predators need a group or pool of children. Regardless of the type of predator, they need to be around children in order to find their victim(s). However, the type of conduct will generally indicate which type of predator is involved.

    My experience investigating and supervising these cases has led me to believe that most of the teachers who are involved in sexual misconduct with a student are situational predators. There are some exceptions to this observation, but most of the time the allegation in these cases involves only one student. It is not uncommon for the sexual misconduct to be described as a loving relationship. The most notorious example of this was the case of Mary Kay Letourneau. She was the teacher, also the mother of four children, who went to prison for her sexual conduct with a student. They had two children together and married after she was released from custody.

    If the Letourneau case had involved multiple children, if there were indications of grooming, and if the allegations covered a long period of time, then she could have been considered a preferential predator. This was exactly the situation in 2005 when Sarah Bench-Salario was convicted of child molestation and sentenced to six years in prison. The Orange County case involved three different boys, ages 11-13. The molestations occurred over two years. Salario moved from boy to boy; discarding one and moving to the next. There was significant testimony by the boys regarding the grooming process.

    Salario was a bit of a rarity; a female preferential predator. The case was brought to light when very observant parents recognized irregular behavior in their son. When he ultimately admitted what was happening, the parents sought help from the legal system. When the case was featured on the Oprah Show, an Orange County prosecutor acknowledged the bravery of the boy and his family to come forward with their allegations. The prosecutor continued by saying that Salario’s behavior would not have stopped if her crimes had not been reported.

    These cases serve as reminders that predators need a target-rich environment. Predators will seek positions that allow them to be around children. Some of these positions are the most trusted in our society; teachers, coaches, law enforcement officers, volunteers, and members of the clergy. It is imperative that parents know their children so that when irregular or suspicious behavior occurs the parents take the appropriate actions to ensure their children’s safety.
  • A Target-Rich Environment – Part 3

    James N. Brown, J.D.
    Detective - Retired

    It is estimated there are 25 million to 30 million children, ages 10-17, using the Internet today. To a predator, this is a target rich environment. No longer does a predator need to leave his home and venture forth into the public to target potential victims. No longer is his pool of potential victims a small group. He can now stay in the isolation of his home and prowl the Internet and its chat rooms to find unsuspecting children.

    In addition to sheer numbers, there are certain false perceptions that encourage risky behavior on the Internet. First, the predator feels they cannot be identified or caught. This is not the case. Most people using the Internet can be identified and located. This is done first through public records and then through court-ordered release of information. Despite this reality, most predators are very aggressive on the Internet because they do feel anonymous, and if a potential child rebukes him, there are millions more to target.

    The second perception involves children and families. We all like to feel that we are safe, secure, and isolated from the outside world when we are in our own homes. This perception is fairly accurate if there is no Internet-connected computer in the home. However, through an Internet connection, a home becomes vulnerable to unsuspecting families. This is because the wonderful world of the Internet is not a one-way street. When a home is connected to the Internet, the world is connected to the home. Through the Internet, predators have immediate access to children, even in their homes.

    The last perception is that everyone feels they are anonymous when they are on the Internet. The predator will do their best to keep their true identity from discovery. However, most children are not so cautious. This is why Internet safety presentations are adamant that children never post any real information about themselves on the Internet. This is also why we encourage families to never put an Internet-connected computer in a child’s bedroom. The analogy that I use for parents is to tell them that doing so is the same as allowing a total stranger to enter their home, go to their child’s room, and have an unsupervised conversation with the child; a conversation that could last hours and can include the exchange of adult and child pornography.

    This three-part series has demonstrated how the personal computer and the Internet have become very important to child predators. They have allowed them a huge target rich environment. They have allowed them to search for victims from the confines of their own homes. And, they have opened up a portal to children and families who believe they are safe in their homes.

    If anyone has a specific question regarding the information presented in my A Target-Rich Environment series, please post your question to my Ask The Expert forum on the RADAR website.

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